lolcow.farm's moderators perfectly show how not to run a community. They b**ch about racist posters, yet they throw sh**fits over men. Ironically, they seem to be fine with using devices, wearing clothes, and occupying buildings created by men. Even if you are a woman, you will get attacked for disagreeing with another post or creating a thread, despite the "Freedom of speech friendly" claim. Their repeated failures demonstrate a fact they will not accept: if you treat your site's users horribly, something else will replace it.