ok i added individual post links
next i should set up meta tags so they embed properly when linked to other sites
i tried to do this before and it didn't work as i intended, i think it can be annoying because they cache things. and i wonder if the robots noindex, nofollow tag i set interferes with this actually
someone showed me this which could save a lot of time, we'll see
then i will make the site actually readable and stylish